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Please send between 5 and 20 dollars to:

Michael Twardos

4755 Punta de Vista

Santa Fe, NM 87507

or use Paypal to

From Michael:

For over five years I’ve had a penpal in Ghana named Richard Dake.  Over the years we’ve traded stories, compared differences between our cultures, discussed current events and shared our dreams for the future.  We’ve written back and forth so much that I consider Richard my good friend.

Having a penpal in Ghana was a way to remind me of how big the world is and how people in far off places live differently but are still very similar to my own life.  It reminded me about inequality and to think of others less fortunate than myself.  For the amount of poverty and hardships Richard faced in Ghana, he is very happy and very optimistic. He’s been a source of happiness and hope for me over the years.

In the fall of 2005, Richard’s father died from illness and the difficulty of taking care of the family fell heavily on Richard’s shoulders.  His aspirations of going to college were cut short.  We’ve discussed his situation and looked for ways to help Richard to get the money needed for college (about 1000 dollars).   We believe that one solution would be to raise the money for him from small contributions from my other friends.  

This is a good solution for several reasons.  Donations to large charities and organizations  usually involves giving money to a group of strangers who in turn provide assistance to other strangers.  In this case, we are all friends so the degrees of separation are much closer.   In this way, raising money for Richard to go to school serves as an “experiment” to see whether a network of friends can make small sacrifices to create a large difference in another’s life.  It will also provide Richard with the inspiration that so many people are in support of him to pursue his dreams of college and career.  Someday it may serve as a model for how networks of friends can positively affect the lives of many deserving individuals.

From Richard:

I live in the lovely country of Ghana.  Its capital is named Accra and it was formally called the Gold Coast. Ghana has a population of 20 miliion people.  We are known to be a very peaceful country.  Our slogan is “Freedom and Justice”. Ghana is a gateway to Africa.  It has many interesting tourist places like the Dr. Kwame Nkrumanh Museum, (the first president of the Republic of Ghana), the Akosombo Dam, the Adorme bribge, Kacum national park, Elmina castle, just to mention few.  Over 40 languages are spoken in Ghana and nine are written and spoken in our schools.   There are three religious practices in Ghana: Christianity, Islam and our traditional religion.  We have good resources like Gold, Diamond, Bauxite and Manganese.

I have two sisters along with my mom and my dad. My dad did all he could for me and my family.  He worked very hard to provide for all of us. It was very difficult for him and affected his health.  In the past year we encountered a series of tragic situations which makes me feel as if i have no reason for being on this Earth.   First, my grandmother died, and two weeks after that, my Dad died.  Since my father’s death, my family depends on me more than ever.  I have to work hard to fill the gap that my father left.  I really feel for my family a lot, especially for my lovely mum.

For all of our hardships, I am thankful for all the things I have.  However, I still feel sad because I currently cannot afford to go to school. I want to be great in future in such a way that my family could turn to me whenever they need assistance.   I have dreamed for a long time to do well in school so I can continue learning at a higher institution. Because we live in a world in which computers are so important, I want to study to become a good professional in information technology. 

I need help to go to school so I can get a good job to help my family. If I can get 950 dollars to pay for my tuition at school, I will work hard to repay my debt to everyone that has helped me and my family. 

Date: Nov 1, 2006            Total Number of Donations:  43             Money Raised:  $710.00

Thank you everyone so much for your help! We are working on securely transferring money to Richard's account.